Wednesday, 26 February 2014

PITFALLS\SUCCESSES

 Hi Lovelies
       Hope you're having a swell day. I wont really be writing lengthy words,just writing it out however it flows......(smiles)
        I went on with the same exercise routine(details in my last post....www.temistots.blogspot.com) but stopped the diet routine of fish, vegetable, beans, wheat, fruits, and water so I wont end up in a CRASH diet, knowing fully well that I want this to be a life time change and not for a period of time. It is better not to start a diet that has an expiration date.....focus on a lifestyle that will last forever. What I did was just to reduce portion of my meals and calculated all my calorie intake not letting it exceed 1000 per day.
         I lost 5kg more by the end of another 2weeks (making it 10kg in a month). Weighing 106kg, my self-esteem and self-awareness grew tremendously. I realised how beneficial it was to be on a weight loss journey. I personally have always considered myself to be attractive regardless of my size but through other peoples opinion about my physical changes I've noticed how superficial the world is. Sometimes I let myself down. when this happens I just hurt a little while and then I get back up and keep going. other times I exceed my expectations and get excited about the fact that I set a goal and I overcame it.(my biggest challenge was myself) I get angry when I didn't see progress on the scale (plateau stage)because i had imagined myself to have lost about 20kg at the end of one month. Before and after pictures helped me overcome this challenges,rather than focus on the fact that my weight wasn't stable, I focused on progress pictures. That was what kept reigniting my wanting to lose weight.    

Encouraging Words......
#        Exercise to be fit, NOT 'SKINNY'.                                                                              Eat to nourish your body and always ignore the haters, doubters and unhealthy examples that were once feedi. You are worth more than you realise.
#         If it doesn't challenge you, it wont change you.
#         Of course its hard. Its supposed to be hard. If it were easy, everybody would do it. Hard is what makes it great

                                                                   Pictures 

                                         
106kg
106kg (with cousin)
106kg 
106kg


Wednesday, 12 February 2014

KICK START /COMMITMENT

Hi dearies,
     Hope you're having a really nice day. This would be a continuation of my first post(my push). I'll try to go into details of how I started, what it was like, how much I lost in two weeks(with pictures), meal all through the two weeks, my weight loss buddy, extras and blah blah blah blah......
GO.....
    I registered at a gym not so close to my house, which I needed to bike(to and fro)mornings and evenings(although I changed gym after a month having found one close to my house). I became a 'die hard' because I went everyday (morning-3hrs and evening-2hrs)except on Sundays and since I had plenty of time to fiddle with having just concluded my university and awaiting a good job.
  My target was to lose 20kg(said by the gynaecologist)but with time, I got to know that technically, the high weight range for my height is 169pounds. Starting with jogging and treadmill, I couldn't jog a minute at a stretch, at some point I broke down in tears asking God why I had to go through so much pains and what exactly I had done wrong to attract all these torment. At that point I failed to understand that I am wonderfully and fair fully made but I dragged myself into this obese state by giving in to unhealthy eating habit and lifestyle and he was compassionate that he made me realise it in-time before it got out of hand. I tried the fast walking method on the thread mill since jogging wasn't easy, I did aerobics,dancing(enjoyed it because I love dancing). I felt pains especially after waking up in the morning, I couldn't balance my feet well on the ground. My heels  were like 'don't move me' because of the much skipping and jogging. I also was taught  how to swim, so I swam thrice in a week-was at first sacred of water but sooner than later became a 'shark' (wink). The good thing about swimming is that you lose pounds in a pleasurable way-no sweat.
  My family and friends actually said I couldn't and wouldn't lose weight due to my eating of large portions. In two weeks, I dropped 5kg(11pounds) and the first significant change after two weeks of working out consistently was the reduction on my tummy. 
 Weight loss buddy
Yea, I did have a weight loss buddy(met her at the gym),she weighed 115kg(see her pictures below). We held ourselves accountable. Having accountability partner in weight loss journey heightens your chances of losing weight.
Exercise routine
- thirty minutes on treadmill, which I jogged for 4/5 minutes (not at a stretch). Did a fast walk all through(with tears)
- fifteen minutes on the cycling machine
- skipped 1,500 counts (250 at a stretch) 
- five minutes in the sauna
- 45 minutes swim(20 laps)
Meal
  Beans, smoothie, vegetables, fish, pomo, all kinds of fruits, wheat bread, wheat flour, skimmed milk and lots of water.(placed myself on a 1000 calorie diet) so I measured all these before taking.
#Notes#
The lure of unhealthy food- I'm going to start by saying I loved bread and ice cream. Was told by my trainer that all the starch I took in goes to my major problematic areas-particularly my thighs. When I gave them up (bread especially) I realised he was right. I noticed overtime that unhealthy(starch/carbohydrate) impacted my fat storage.
   Lifestyle changes-  The changes were along the line of not having to eat fast foods, eating more fruits and vegetables,drinking plenty of water, working out(exercises)..... 
Encouragement from all side- Absolutely, everyone needs some type of external strength which helps in the continuity on the weight loss journey, since of course its such an overwhelming and long-term process.
Practical tips- Read every food label and monitor the calories of each of your meals and snacks, eat them also in smaller portions. Drink a gallon of water everyday, consume little or no salt and most importantly get to know your body.
On a final note.......... 
   You have to be committed to this. There is no fast rule or process. Once it is accepted and forced onto your subconscious, you can begin with a clean mental state and be able to take things one day at a time.
Extras......
Amount of calorie in my smoothie- 
       A slice of water melon- about 76/86calories (measured an compared)
       1 plum- about 30/40 calories
       1 apple- 70-100 calories
All blended together to make a smoothie(Approximately 176-220 calorie)
                                                                  
                                                                       PICTURES                  
                                                           My weight loss buddy(115kg to 80kg)                                                           
My weight loss buddy: from top left And bottom left(115Kg) top right(95kg) bottom right and middle(80kg) 
                                     
Me at (111kg) having lost 5kg

Swimming time!

Breakfast time!
111kg
loving my flat tummy
Second week
Third day
End of 2weeks (111kg)


 

Wednesday, 5 February 2014

INTRODUCTION/MY PUSH



She's Yetunde, from Lagos state(ikorodu),she's jovial (laughs a whole lot),fun loving, blah!blah!blah! The once awarded big bold and beautiful(winks),Mass communication department, OOU (2012).Last born of three... 

  This is going to be my first post on my new blog.(not a professional thing, just a personal stuff. Thanks to dara and deola). Its all going to be a step by step post(with pictures) of my weight loss journey, techniques(involving workouts) that worked for me, pitfalls and successes, pains and gains etc.. "My goal and aim is to help others avoid mistakes as I have, be a source of motivation and empowerment and to make a difference on a task that seems so insurmountable.(Hope u guys will pardon my shortcomings in all)

     To my best of knowledge, for one to get on at something so hard and well, one needs a push. Which is what will make such individual keep going amidst pullbacks of any form. All my life I took being fit for granted. I was clearly overweight. I was 255.7pounds(116kg). I ate a lot and as a result I constantly gained weight from that. My family and friends use to pick at me all the time about my size. I tried so many unhealthy extreme fad diets(especially in my university days),unnecessary short term stuffs resulting to ulcer. And that of course never worked.

   My push

I obviously wasn't(internally and externally)healthy. I had pains all over especially the joint areas. My body so hurts that I wondered how I got to this obese stage. I thought it was manageable because I could move around and as well dance. The height and PUSH was when I realised it had so much eaten deep into my health that my monthly period stopped flowing. For like 4/5 months I was off the blood(I wasn't Preggy)and when it did pop out finally, it only would dot my panty liner. Went seeing several doctors that kept on prescribing contraceptive pills, saying it corrects it one way or the other....but come to think of it ,how long am I going to be on pills? When the time comes for me to start bringing forth babies how is that on earth going to happen knowing fully well it prevents conception. There and then I was advised to go see a gynaecologist. I was scared by what disease will be said or told I had, but it was a different story entirely. Immediately he saw me, the very first thing he did see were my huge and mighty thighs and the next thing he said without hearing me out yet was I should go on the scale. Lo and behold my weight was way too much for the scale that it broke. I was so embarrassed that he directed me somewhere else to check my weight and the result was 116kg(weight) 5'8(height), at that point he remembered he had not asked why I came, then he asked and I told him about my menses ish, he simply told me to get off 20kg out of me first then come back to be told what medication to take. I was down and dry. I lay on my bed that morning in October thinking about what to do, how to go about it and all. Then I arrived at a conclusion that I was going to join a gym and promised my self that I was going to get my health back. My health(monthly cycle)was my push.

  I snapped out of my day dreams and laziness. This is a battle and I must win, knowing fully well I had a lot of force to reckon with. I knew there was something wrong with my system and I needed to make it right. I have always believed fitness is an entry point to help build a happier and healthier life. When my health is strong, I can be capable of taking risks. I'll feel more confident to ask for promotion. I'll have more energy to be a better mom, aiming to be the best wife. I'll feel more deserving of love.

 Are you currently struggling with your weight?
Are you presently undergoing a fad diets or weight loss plan that will or has worsen situations like mine did?
Does your dream plan(future) seems attractive but your being obese weeps it all?
As a teen or young adult is your self image so low or off that makes you think you can never have the best or be termed the best?
Have you so withdrawn to a shadow of yourself that you can't face and stand up for yourself?

   I have this for you! You can be happy!!! Let the worse thing of all that you going through right now be that big PUSH for you. If I could do it, you can too. I have never being this slim all my life.(68kg) is what I do weigh now, I didn't undergo any surgery, I worked out my fat! If I tell you its been all rosy all the way, then I'll be lying. I'm not saying it will be easy but I'm telling you it will be worth it. My PUSH pulled me through all the way. A lot of times I fell, but I picked myself up. First thing you should have when wanting to embark on the weightloss journey is the PUSH. What is yours?  Remember! No goal was ever met without sweats.